We make things more complicated. Simple as that.
Especially when you are living with Fibro or chronic pain, there are more things to consider, worry about and you seem to over think, over compensate, and it makes it more complicated than it seems, and makes us less likely to do anything.
10 errands, 10 simple tasks to a normal person, is more along the lines of 100 for you or I. Grocery Shopping, Making 3 Meals A Day, Laundry, Cleaning, Paying Bills, Showering and Getting Ready Is A Chore For US, and then if you have WORK, you are ready to collapse by 9am.
Then we are constantly worrying, thinking HOW ARE WE GOING TO FIND THE ENERGY, when am I going to have time, and then if you don't do them, the guilt is unbelievable.
Why? Why think about it?
Is there anything that important that you must do it today? If so do that one thing and say F" It to the rest (except work).
I found the key, is to stop worrying, and stop over thinking. Stop caring about what other people say and just do what you can. If you accomplish work, and making homemade meals YOU ROCK. If you do another thing, you are AMAZING, if you have a fantastic day SUPERWOMAN.
If anyone has anything to say about it, tell them where to go.
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